There is one. I call it the bar. These temples of the unsatisfied. Large etched glass windows full of people looking to congrigate, to fellowship, to commune as much as possible especially if they have free pretzels.

I will agree with you, that there is a certain safety net held by the religious that due to most locations sparce population of athiests and our own coyness in those sort of systems creates a frequent solidarity. The best thing I believe we can do is kill religion as quickly as possible so these fuctions will be provided by systems which we feel more comfortable partaking of.